Change n Think;You or Me?

Being hurt is something you cant stop from happening, but being miserable is always your choice. There are 3 C's of life: Choice, Chance, Change. You have to make the Choice to take the Chance if you want anything to Change. Never expect people to change because they won't. People only change whenever their surrounding/environment is changed. The surrounding includes all things that involve yourselves;friends, family, etc. Thus, to make people change is by changing ourselves first, change the way we approach that smthing or on how we handle them. Remember, rejection doesn't hurt, expectation does. Lie doesn't kill, denial does. "Forget" doesn't heal, "forgive" does. So lets think..think..and think. Should we be the one who make a change or just be the one who waits? We've been granted with a brain, the best and complex creation of all organs in human body. and Al-Quran itself encourages us to think either critically or creatively. Recognition/understanding of things is never an easy task. As in Al-Quran stated several verses that stress human being to THINK. For example in Surah al-Imran (190-191), Surah ar-Ra'd (3), and Surah An-Nisa' (82). Thinking is a must for all hamba Allah in order to make ourselves more close to Him by thinking the wisdoms behind all of His creations.
"LOOK,THINK REMEMBER,UNDERSTAND,ACT accordingly"
Assalamualaikum. (Cahaya)

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