Modesty

Bila sesuatu benda yg kita ada terlalu banyak,ia akan jadi unappreciated.but when it becomes small or less,then only we start to take note or value it.MODEST n moderate is the best condition ever. Because in life,if ur being 'too much' or 'excessively' for everything,u might lose your identity. Ibarat kata orang putih "Be moderate in everything, including in moderation".
It might be the extremists who change the world, but it is the moderates who step in when all the changing is done and make it liveable. Why extremist can't? Because most of them are radical and irrational in certain matters or states. Plus, of cos bcos they are 'extreme'..toooo much!..
When things become too much or uncontrollable,all u need to do is 'PAUSE' and put yourself in a silent mode n then, start to THINK. Make a checklist in your head of what's necessary and what's not. Scale them from 1-10 or maybe 100??(o_O). Being silent doesn't mean being empty like this one Melayu punya metaphor- 'Diam-diam ubi berisi'. It brings many definition based on one's understanding. When we see people smile, we tend to make a statement that 'ohh..they look so happy as if they had no problem in their life'. Listen peeps, they smile because they WANTed to do so. Wanting something is all about one's right to choose. No rush and force. Like I've stated before 'if it's to be,it's up to me' .
As-Salam.Cahaya.
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